Anger Management: When Ego, Silence and Anger Collided
Anger Management: When Ego, Silence and Anger Collided Understanding the Thin Line Between Expression and Explosion Anger Management Anger is not an enemy; it is an emotion meant to protect us. Athletes, wrestlers, labourers—many people use anger as fuel to push their limits. But anger becomes harmful the moment it crosses the boundary of logic and respect. Like every other discipline, anger too follows an equation: When (Ego + Anger) > Logic → the outcome is chaos. And when the equation is balanced, anger becomes energy. Today, I’m sharing a sensitive real-life incident—one that taught me the importance of balancing this emotional equation. Even after 27 years, this day still breathes inside me. The Incident I Still Remember One of my favourite students, Mrs. Dubey, a builder’s wife, used to attend my personality development and spoken English module. She had great command over Marathi, Gujarati, Bhojpuri, and of course Hindi. Her sister Pinki, a college student, also accompanied h...